Why do we think that we have to suffer for love? In Elissa’s song “men albi tmanait” She wonders how people love and how they sleep the night while in love. As if being in love means bye bye to sleep.
While it is nice to hear songs that has this touch of showing strong emotions, but we should be aware that love doesn’t have to be this way. Love should be a comforting force. Love can be relaxing, security and content.
When you are in love, you sleep the whole night with a smile. Feeling the presence of your lover even when he/she is physically away.
When you are in love, you feel content, calmness and peace just touching the hand of your lover.
It shouldn’t be a constant fear of losing your lover, or an obsession to keep him/her around, or a possessive attitude of ownership. In the contrary, it should inflict happiness, content, and a feeling of being special when looking in the eyes of your lover.
Love is sane. It is harmony. It is satisfaction.
When I am with my lover, the world stops. No more time, no more worries. Only a present lasting moment of content.